Why Relationships Are Hard to Maintain and How to Strengthen Them
Bureau Report, Tidingstrue: It is said that it is not easy to maintain relationships… One has to hurt one’s own heart here… only then does one’s loved ones get happiness… How much do you agree with this? Do tell us in the comment section. But before that, know a little about those relationships. Whose name is on the tongue… but why is there no respect in the heart? Why does the companionship of childhood… get left somewhere after growing up? We will answer these questions of yours in today’s video.
Samaaj means society… of which we are a small part. A family…which lives in a house. Which consists of parents, husband-wife and children. If the family is big then grandparents, uncle-aunt, paternal uncle-aunt and their children are also included. All these together form a joint family. As long as we are naive, we consider everyone as our own. But when we become wise, that is, grown up, then why do we forget the importance of their closeness. First it starts with our family. Then why does it stop at me and my family, my wife, my children. What if we remove the word ‘I’ from our life. What if we ignore some things. What if we become a fruit-bearing tree. What if we think about our loved ones before ourselves. What if we talk to those we love with a little smile. Maybe we do all this in childhood… then what happens when we grow up that we like to become just a tree… and not a fruit-bearing tree.
For the loved ones, one has to bow one’s head and sometimes even get one’s head chopped off. But in today’s times, getting one’s head chopped off is a far-fetched idea. No one likes to bow down before anyone. Be it a brother or sister, husband or wife or one’s own parents. Leave relatives aside. In earlier times, marriages were a bond of 7 lives. But today marriages last only for 7 or 17 years. Have you ever wondered why this is so? Were the people of that time illiterate or are the people of this current era overly educated and intelligent? This is not the case at all. Actually, in the current scenario, we do not give importance to our relationships with our loved ones. There was so much peace and stability in life earlier. Today’s life is running fast. As if we do not even have time to stop. Sometimes we run from ourselves and sometimes from our responsibilities. And sometimes we run from our loved ones. We do not even know where to stop. But we are just running to fulfill our and our family’s desires.
It is true that our fingers are not equal, so how can the thinking of our family members be the same? If we look closely, this used to happen in childhood too. One brother wants something, the other wants something else, one sister wants something else, the other sister wants something else. Still we live together. We even fight with others for our loved ones. But why do we have differences as we grow up? Why do walls get drawn between blood relations? Is our being practical the biggest reason? Is not taking out time for our loved ones the reason? If we make a mistake somewhere, then it is two sweet words of love. It is said that even the biggest problems can be solved by talking. But this ‘I’ stops us from talking. Family problems are the story of every home or rather say every household. Sometimes a father does not get along with his son. Sometimes a brother does not get along with the other brother. Sometimes a mother-in-law does not get along with her daughter-in-law. First of all, this problem is just a spark. Then it doesn’t take long for the fire to ignite. Therefore, as soon as the spark arises, we should pour water on it. Otherwise, it doesn’t take long for even the biggest house to be destroyed due to family conflict.
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